The "Say It Like You Mean It" Package

Writing vows can feel surprisingly hard. You know how you feel but getting those feelings into words that sound natural, sincere, and actually like you is another matter entirely.

Say It Like You Mean It is gentle, thoughtful vow-writing support for couples (or individuals) who want to express their love in a way that feels real, grounded, and deeply personal without clichés, cringe, or pressure to perform.

Vow Writing Support That Sounds Like You Not a Template

What This Support Looks Like

This support is perfect if:

• You want vows that feel heartfelt but not over-rehearsed

• You’re worried about sounding awkward, cheesy, or “not yourself”

• You have lots of feelings but don’t know where to start

• You’re confident in your relationship, but not on a blank page

• You want reassurance that what you say will land

You don’t need to be a writer. You just need someone who knows how to listen.

Who this package is for

There’s no pressure and no formula. We work at your pace, in a way that feels comfortable. This might include:

• Talking through your relationship and what matters most to you

• Helping you identify the tone that feels right (tender, playful, grounded, emotional)

• Shaping your thoughts into words that sound like you

• Editing and refining without over-polishing

• Offering reassurance that what you’ve written is enough

Some people want gentle guidance. Others want hands-on help. Both are welcome.

What's included

With Say It Like You Mean It, you’ll receive:

• A relaxed, supportive initial conversation

• One-to-one vow writing support (for couples or individuals)

• Thoughtful prompts and guidance to help you find your words

• Editing and refinement to ensure clarity and flow

• Support with tone, length, and structure

• Reassurance that your vows feel honest and true

Optional guidance on delivery, pacing, and reading aloud

Why You Can Feel Confident Working With Me

Helping people find the right words and deliver them with confidence is something I’ve done for many years, long before I became a celebrant.

I’m an experienced public speaker, comfortable standing in front of large crowds, projecting my voice, and holding attention. I also previously sang in a Vintage Harmony trio, performing to live audiences which means I understand rhythm, pacing, emotional delivery, and how words feel when they’re spoken aloud.

That experience shapes how I work with vows:

• I know what sounds natural when spoken

• I know how emotion lands in a room

• I know how to shape words so they feel authentic, not performative

Your vows won’t just read well on paper, they’ll feel right in the moment.

The "Say It Like You Mean It" Package costs from £100 per hour.

This reflects one-to-one support, careful listening, thoughtful shaping of language, and the experience that helps your words land with confidence and authenticity. I’m always happy to chat.

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