Funerals & Memorials FAQs

How do I book you as a Funeral Celebrant?

You can book me in whichever way feels easiest for you. Some families contact me directly, while others ask their Funeral Director or Funeral Arranger to make the booking on their behalf.

If your Funeral Director books me, they’ll take care of the paperwork and payment and include my fee within the overall funeral costs, one less thing for you to manage at a difficult time.

What happens when we start planning the funeral service?

Once I’m booked, I’ll contact you to arrange an initial meeting at a time and place that feels comfortable for you. This might be at your home, another quiet space, or online if that’s easier.

During our meeting, I’ll gently guide the conversation and listen to your stories, memories, and reflections. This usually lasts between one and two hours, but there’s no rush and no pressure to make decisions on the spot. Everything you share helps me create a ceremony that truly reflects the life and personality of the person you’re remembering.

Do I need to prepare anything before we meet?

No there’s absolutely no need to prepare anything in advance unless you want to. Some families bring notes, photos, or favourite memories, while others simply talk and see what comes naturally. Both are completely fine.

If your loved one left wishes or instructions for their service, I’ll help you gently weave those into the ceremony.

What will we talk about when planning the funeral?

A funeral ceremony can be as simple or as detailed as you wish. Together, we might talk about:

• Your loved one’s life, personality, and relationships

• Stories or moments that feel important to include

• Music, readings, or poems

• Any cultural, spiritual, or personal traditions you’d like to honour

• Who might like to speak or be involved

There’s no right or wrong, only what feels right for you and your family.

What happens after our meeting?

After our meeting, I’ll carefully write the ceremony and create a personalised eulogy based on everything you’ve shared. I’ll send this to you for review, and we can make any changes you wish. We may also have follow-up calls or emails to finalise details and ensure everything feels right.

On the day itself, I’ll arrive early, liaise with your Funeral Director where needed, and lead the ceremony with calm, compassion, and care, allowing you to focus on being present.

Can the ceremony be simple or non-traditional?

Yes, absolutely. Many families choose ceremonies that are simple, modern, or non-traditional, especially following a direct cremation.

Whether you’re planning a formal funeral, a memorial service, or a celebration of life, the ceremony can be shaped entirely around your wishes and your loved one’s story.